During my time in ministry, I’ve learned many important lessons. At each of the three mainline churches I’ve had the pleasure of working at, one lesson has stood out among the other…The importance of bringing others along.
I’m the kind of person that is able to see what kind of changes need to be made and how we should go about making those changes. That’s a good thing. However, I’m also the kind of person that says, “Let’s make these changes today.” In my enthusiasm, I often fail to remember the importance of that one lesson…what was it??? Something about bringing others along.
It’s much easier to institute changes when you have the support and team work of those around you. Talking through changes with key people prior to introducing them to larger groups can be very beneficial. I remember at one church I was preparing to make a significant change to the way we went about our ministry for youth. The senior pastor encouraged me to talk to one particular leader in the church…implying that if I had his support, others would fall in line completely. At first, this left me feeling a bit cold. How could the church be so political? Of course, I then saw how this truly worked and realized it’s not so much about politics as it is about bringing others along.
Most of us don’t like to be surprised. We like to know what to expect. When you go to a restaurant and order the “chicken-brie-raspberry” you expect to be served a dish that contains chicken, brie, and raspberry and not the pork wellington.
Some elements of surprise are welcome and needed in some cases. But, today I’m being reminded of the great value in bringing others along.
Often I get frustrated that the changes I believe are much needed at Center Chapel are taking so long to come about. I need to remember that things at the church have been pretty much the same for about 20 years. To make changes takes time and working with others to get everyone on the same page.
Jesus had to bring others along…why shouldn’t I? I mean, look at Peter. He goes from being the “rock” to being called “satan”. Jesus asks Peter what he believes about Him and Peter says “You are the Christ”, only later to deny any affiliation with Jesus. However, later (like after the resurrection), Jesus reinstates Peter, telling him to feed and care for His sheep.
We also know that sometimes Jesus would introduce some new ways of looking at things and those who were following Him deserted Him. That happens with change too! But, look at what happened as a result of His working closely with a small number of people to bring about a new way of life. Some 2,000 years later and people are still following Him.
Jesus knew the importance of bringing others along. I need to remember to put this lesson into practice.